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Today, I'm going to tell you why I will very likely never

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return to the United States.

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It was the country of my birth.

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It was the country that I was last in.

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In June of 2017, I spent a week and gave up

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on the idea that I didn't want to go to the US

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for as long as I was an American living overseas.

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I didn't even want to fly through the US

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and have to deal with the immigration and the TSA.

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We'll talk about all that in a little bit.

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But I finally said, you know what?

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I had to go see a friend or two.

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I got a couple of things I can do and I'll go and spend a week.

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And little as I know, that would probably be the last week

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I ever spent, the last time I ever breathed actual air

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outside of a US airport because six months later

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in mid-December of 2017, I flew from Cancun,

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where I was hosting folks, laid over in JFK

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and went onward to where I would renounce US citizenship.

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And I'm going to tell you what exactly that means.

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Remember I had a friend of mine.

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I had a long layover at JFK.

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We actually recorded some videos

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that we've never ever shown before of my final moment

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standing on US soil.

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I remember walking out to the curb at JFK

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and just, you know, breathing in not the freshest of air,

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but breathing in at dusk on a New York day in December,

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the final time that I would ever be there.

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Certainly up until now and perhaps forever.

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Now, I know there's going to be people who are saying,

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well, if you left us and didn't fight

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and you wouldn't stand with us, then good riddance.

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You see a lot of good riddance

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when people leave for whatever reason.

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A lot of folks will leave in the UK and also the US

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and other countries because of the high taxes.

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These days, good riddance, they say,

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until they realize they're losing money.

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My departure wasn't really motivated by taxes

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as much as we do help people move overseas

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and reduce their taxes.

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I felt like the country was irredeemably going

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in the wrong direction.

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It would work against people like me.

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And I said, I don't want to be a part of that.

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And so if people who perhaps fit into why the country

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is in that position decide that I shouldn't come back

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and we don't want you back, well, at 40 years of age,

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I finally realized I don't get to control

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what other people think and that doesn't mean

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that I'm wrong or bad, but we'll talk about that.

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One of the things that I was so impactful to me

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and I didn't realize at the time,

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right before I was born, my grandmother got remarried.

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The nomad grandmas at work that we showed you her ancestry

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that came many generations before her from Wales,

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she remarried a gentleman who was born

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in Burnow, Czechoslovakia and his family

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and he were on the wrong side of the regime at that time.

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He fought for his own country in the wrong side of the war,

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eventually was granted passage to the US,

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became a naturalized US citizen,

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but was never able to go back because for as long

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as the Iron Curtain was in place, he was on the naughty list.

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He had been tried at Emsensia and my grandmother

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told the story of how even when they would go

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on a European river cruise, they said,

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don't get off in your old country.

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He regretted because he had lost his parents

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that had both been sent to camps.

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I believe he reunited at one point with his mother,

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but he never got too good with his mother's grave.

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And as I got older and as I created my identity

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as someone who didn't want to live in the United States

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and moved out and eventually said,

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if I'm not gonna be here, why did I wanna be a citizen?

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I identified more and more

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and I understood more and more of that story.

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You know, one of the things that I have tried

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to practice in my life is not regretting

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and I don't regret.

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Even if I felt I regretted my decision,

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I can't do anything to change it

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because when you renounce your US citizenship,

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people ask, well, you can just go and get it back

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if you want.

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No, it's permanent.

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I can go and apply for some form of residence permits.

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I can make an investment thing in an EB-5 green card.

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I could perhaps go on an exceptional talent in 01.

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I could perhaps, there's numerous ways you can get in.

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I'm not sure if an 01 is immigrant or not.

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I help people leave the US and go to it.

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But I could find some way to get back in

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if they would grant me that residence permit.

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They might not and I could go through the same process

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and anybody else who applies and lives there

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and becomes a naturalized citizen.

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I've kind of thought before,

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I wonder if I became a naturalized citizen again.

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Could I run for president as I am indeed

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a natural born citizen?

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Obviously, wouldn't win.

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But it's not something that I regret.

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And yet, as I think about my grandfather's story,

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he obviously came to the US at a time

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when going to the US was very much in vogue

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and was a place you could go where you were treated best,

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just as my, his wife, my grandmother's ancestors

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had done a hundred or so years earlier.

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And the simple thing is, why not go back to the US?

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Well, for one reason,

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I don't have any particular reason to go.

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When I look at life,

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I look at the story of my grandfather

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and I look at it as having seasons.

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He had a season living in Czechoslovakia

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and you know what, his country turned against him.

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And for me, looking at, you know,

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some of the ways that the United States has changed,

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have they turned against me personally?

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No, but has the environment,

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is it different than perhaps when I was born for sure?

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And I think that seasons ought to change

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when they're meant to change, seasons ought to change

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when the circumstances change.

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And so, you know, we had Tony Fernandez,

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the CEO of AirAsia at Nomad Capitalist Live.

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What I loved and what I found striking

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about the speech he gave

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and the talk that we had with our VAPs,

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everything he talked about was so simple.

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Why do you have more female pilots

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along the other airlines?

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We just did it.

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And I realized it was an absence of bureaucracy

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and red tape and BS that allowed him

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to be the same kind of an entrepreneur that I am

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and that maybe you are and take an airline

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that he bought for 26 cents

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and turn it into a big, big, big airline

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that dominates in Asia.

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And so, sometimes the simplest answer is the best.

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Why do I want to go to a country that I had my season in?

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Can't say it was the best season of my life.

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Can't say that I particularly loved being there all the time

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and forget that I thought, yeah, I'm paying too much in taxes,

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just didn't feel like the place for me.

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So why would I want to go back?

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I think I flirted when I renounced with the idea of,

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okay, well, it's no longer my country

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so I can be more at peace with them

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and okay, you know, they want to go bombing some country now.

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I don't agree with that, but it's not in my name.

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It's not my problem.

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I'm going to be more accepting of that.

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Hey, you do, you boo, and I'll be over here.

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I've kind of eased up on that feeling

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because I feel like, you know,

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the US does stick its finger in so many places

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and the whole you do, you boo thing

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doesn't really exist for them.

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They haven't really done anything to me

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because I always played it straight.

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But the simple reason why I don't want to go is, yeah, I,

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the TSA in Malaysia is pretty darn pleasant

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and it sets the tone for me in countries like that.

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Why when you can have pleasant

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would you go and have unpleasant?

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You know, why when you go to countries

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where I'm a citizen or even just a resident's permit holder

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and they greet you with literally loving remarks,

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would you want to go back to a place

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where when I was a citizen, they would scream at you

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and they would dump your bag out.

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And who goes to Italy for 11 days by himself?

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And I think honestly, I mean, I know people

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that because they live in Asia,

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get detained when they go back

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under suspicion of being child pornographers,

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which is pretty scary stuff that, you know,

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you live in Asia and you live a normal life

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and that's their impression of you, their citizen.

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So there's that.

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I just, I don't know what there is to do in the US.

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And I think that people in the US have this idea

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that there's, you know, there's nowhere else to go.

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I mean, I can go to a baseball game

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in a handful of other countries around the world

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if I cared that much, but I don't care that much.

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So I don't, I can go to Disneyland in Paris

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or in Hong Kong and I'll have to go in the US.

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I mean, what are the things that you can only do in the US?

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I've seen the stuff I wanted to see.

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I just, you know, you're never going to see everything.

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I think people should realize

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whatever they think only exists in their country

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exists in a lot of countries.

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I think that's what holds people back.

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And that's one of the things

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that I've tried to tell you over the years.

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But I, you know, that same grandma,

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she told me how her ancestors went to get on the ship

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to move to the US back in, I was 1851.

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And guess what?

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It wasn't, oh my goodness,

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you're going to the United States.

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That's the best place to go.

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It was, no, what are you going for?

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How dare you?

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Please stay back.

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We want you so badly.

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You can't do that.

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You're making a mistake.

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And they said, no, we're going.

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And you realize that even when people were doing something

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that we look back now on it and say,

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oh, wow, that's pretty impactful.

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Yeah, moving to the US, easy decision.

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Wasn't so easy back then.

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It's easy in hindsight.

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And people tried to talk them out of it.

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People tried to talk me out of renouncing.

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People tried to say, you'll come back to the US eventually,

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but I followed my own North Star.

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Now, the other issue is I've chosen to be a citizen

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of a handful of countries,

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what I call T or B and T or C countries.

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Seif Adidamus came to our event, Nomad Capitalist Live.

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He talked about how he could have become Canadian

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if he stayed and paid a bit more in taxes.

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He chose to stay Jordanian.

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I, pretty much all my passports

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are better than a Jordanian passport.

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He said, hey, I go and I get a visa, I'm fine.

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Now the US has no problem with him.

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And so he gets a US visa.

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My passports, I've got visa free travel

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to pretty much anywhere I wanna go in the world

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except for the US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand

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and a handful of like African countries

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that everyone needs a visa to go to

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or Turkmenistan that everyone needs a visa for.

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But the big ones are US, Canada, Australia, New Zealand,

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pretty much every other country on Earth I can go to.

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Now I can get a visa in New Zealand.

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I think I applied once

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and you have to send your passport off for three months.

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I said, I have better things to do than that.

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I've been to Australia, wasn't impressed.

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Sorry, not for me.

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We're all allowed to have different opinions, aren't we?

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Been to Canada many times, okay, great.

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Been there, done that, heading in the wrong direction.

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And I spent, you know, a good chunk of my life

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living in the US.

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So I felt, hey, I don't really care

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about going to these places.

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I got offered a speaking gig in Canada.

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I said, you know, I don't wanna bother, sorry.

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And so if I won't go to be paid, you know,

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tens of thousands of dollars,

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why would I care to go for free?

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So I have this collection of passports

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and with that I would apply for a US visa.

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I'm sure, I mean, there's people who have committed

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crimes who are getting US visas.

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But one thing is, it's pretty arbitrary.

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One person said, a big part of getting a US visa is luck.

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The US is infamous for having the most vague criteria

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for granting a visa, unlike the UK and European countries

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which have a much more objective set of criteria.

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It's mostly tick the box for them.

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But in the US, a lot of discretion is given to the interviewer

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and you better hope that they are in a good mood.

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Many people were denied simply because the embassy officer

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didn't like the face of the person

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and you can't do anything about it.

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There is no appeal.

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In some jurisdictions, they have a pre-determined

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secret percentage of denials

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like India, Bangladesh, Pakistan, Nigeria,

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and actually it's more countries than that.

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So in these jurisdictions,

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you have your application already stamped and denied

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without even hearing your case, even to millionaires.

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Now, do I think most millionaires can get a visa?

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Sure.

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This is not to say that if you renounce

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here US citizenship, you won't be allowed back in.

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I think having a TRA passport would be a better thing to do

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if you want to be in that camp.

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You know what also be good is probably not having a business

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that tells people what I, I mean, it's the truth

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and I believe it, but coming out here and talking

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about how the US is heading in the wrong direction

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as a sort of cottage industry probably doesn't help.

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Why? Because they do have discretion.

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I think in most countries that I would go to,

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you know, I've gotten numerous residence permits,

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citizenship's around the world.

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I've sometimes asked, hey, you know,

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here's what I do for work and they're like,

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what, why would that matter?

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Do you break any laws?

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No, I have a clean criminal record.

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Okay, so what's the problem?

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Well, maybe subjectively they don't like it.

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And nobody cares here.

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Do you meet the criteria?

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Are you a good person, dah, dah, dah, dah.

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I've said there are judgmental countries

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and not judgmental countries.

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I think most countries are not judgmental.

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Do you, do you tick the box?

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Do you, you know, do you have the amount of money

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needed to invest to get the residence permit?

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You know, do you have the clean criminal record?

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And I tick those boxes, but I'm not convinced

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and I don't want to waste the time

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to keep going down to the US Embassy

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and begging head in hand, please give me a visa.

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I think it's $190 every time you go.

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Why would I bother to do that?

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Well, I don't really want to go.

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And even the fact that even some people

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with TRA passports, this is pretty rare.

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When I talked to some of,

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there's a story from a Hungarian.

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He was in Canada, tried to cross the land border.

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He's got a remote job.

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Guy at the US border doesn't know what a remote job is,

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sends him back.

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Why do I want to be associated with a place

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where that's the criteria

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when almost no other country in Earth has that criteria?

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There's no such thing as what you could just visit,

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can't you?

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Either you touch US soil or you don't.

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There's no, I mean, you can't even fly through.

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If I want to fly from Dublin to Bogota, Colombia,

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I can't take the flight through Newark

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because there is no sterile transit in the US.

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You have to enter the country.

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You have to have a visa just to fly through.

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So when we fly people all around the world from our company,

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we generally avoid flying them through the US.

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If nothing else, it's just a time suck.

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And so you might think,

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oh, wow, look at what this guy's done to himself.

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He's cut off his opportunities.

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It was never something I wanted in the first place.

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And so I think that what sometimes people think is,

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once they've burned the bridge, as it were,

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by the way, I didn't burn a bridge.

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I share my honest opinions.

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I'd be able to follow all the US laws if they live there.

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If they don't like that I have an opinion,

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kind of flies in the face of what the US was all about

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if they want to hold that against me.

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I thought it was all about, we're individualists

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and we have free speech

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and we get to speak out against the government.

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I guess that's kind of less of a thing these days.

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But I think people tend to regret stuff

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or they think they'll regret stuff

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once they've cut off an option.

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And I just don't think it's a healthy thing to do.

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Again, I left for a whole lot of personal reasons.

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I could have stayed at expat

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and continued paying practically no tax

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and kept the citizenship.

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Now, I would have had a few more restrictions

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on how I use that money,

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but even if that were a major criteria, which it wasn't,

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that's not that I'm leaving for the tax.

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I think my last couple of years I paid zero

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when I did it legally.

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And so the idea of, oh, well,

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if you leave for tax reasons, didn't,

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then you shouldn't be allowed to come in,

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kind of flies in the face of the fact that

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if I overstayed a visa, which is supposedly the reason

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that one would not be granted a visa,

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I would become a tax resident

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because US B-1, B-2 visas are generally good for six months.

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And if you spend six months in the US,

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you can be sucked into the tax debt

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and why would you give up citizenship in a country

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to have all the negatives

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without the citizenship in the passport?

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So it doesn't make sense,

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but that's why there's a handful of countries

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like the US which are judgmental.

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And I just look at everything like a relationship.

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I don't give extra points to people in my family.

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If people in my family do stuff that's wrong,

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they don't get extra points towards being wrong

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because we share blood.

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And in the same way,

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I don't think your country should get extra points

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because you subscribe to something called patriotism.

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If your country does something wrong to you,

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if your country is judgmental,

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if your country makes the wrong call,

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then you ought to extract yourself from that relationship.

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I did it in the most complete of ways.

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And what you realize when you extract yourself

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from bad relationships

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is usually the other person doesn't change.

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And I think that for me,

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my feeling when finally being out was okay,

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I'm not part of this,

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I'm gonna feel better about whatever they do.

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And I still to some extent feel that way,

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but they haven't changed.

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They're still going to judge me based on,

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hey, we think you don't like paying tax

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or we don't like that you say bad stuff about us.

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And we've had, we had some twerp from one of the embassies

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or used to work at one of the embassies

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commenting under his own name saying,

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oh, I hope you suffer.

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Kind of a sick kind of place to go to.

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You know, I live in a lot of countries.

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I have homes, I talk to people.

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And nobody's ever said they hope I suffer.

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That kind of tells you something about the country.

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And so as the U.S. becomes more and more,

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well, quite simply more and more poor,

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I think that people like me fit in even less and less.

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Here's a comment from someone who doesn't like

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something I said.

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How many people are sitting around drinking their coffee

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this beautiful morning having the cash

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to run it and buy a place in Vanuatu?

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Not the majority by any means.

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And how many Americans want to run like scared chickens

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while nemesis like Russia or China nuke our country?

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By the way, I don't know about you.

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If someone's gonna nuke your country

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and you have the chance to run,

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I don't know, I would get out.

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I would escape the blast radius.

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But I also know, yeah,

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the majority of people don't have the chance.

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I think he's talking about,

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we talked about Vanuatu citizenship.

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You buy stuff there and get citizenship.

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I can afford to do that.

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What the reality is for everybody else,

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I mean, we should always be aware

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of everyone else around us.

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But for me, yeah, I can afford to do that.

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So what?

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I should be taken as a joke.

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You know, again, it was just at nomad capitalist live

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out that long ago,

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talking to speakers from all around the world,

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very high level people.

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And when you talk to them about this stuff,

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they're like, yeah, of course that makes perfect sense.

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It's not like, oh, well,

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who do you think you are to do that?

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And you just realize this is a country of butthurt people.

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You know, in Ireland, people leave Ireland,

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nobody ever calls them a traitor.

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There's a history of immigration as part of it.

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You know, people leave, I've been all over Eastern Europe,

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people leave and they go and they get a passport,

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they come back, people don't call them a traitor.

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There's something about the US that it's like,

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if you didn't do exactly what I think you should do,

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then you're a bad person.

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No fighting back, he says.

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I suspect these cowards who plan to run from the fight,

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which isn't really what I did.

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I think it was more about looking at opportunities

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somewhere else, wanting a sense of adventure.

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Sure, if I can keep more of my own money,

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that's nice, probably about the girls over there are nicer.

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But you know, to Americans, I've always run,

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why go back and hang out with those people?

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I hang out with Americans who have liked mine with me,

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people who are like our clients, but most are not.

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Why go back to an entire country, these people,

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who think that I'm a coward and who assumes

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I must have voted for Biden, wasn't a citizen to vote?

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So be gone with you.

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I'm staying and defending my country

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to whatever I can, whereas I've chosen to have a good life

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and have my values and have the biggest impact

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by not being suffocated by that system.

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So why go back and remind myself?

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Maybe the US is a lot less individualistic

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than it wants to think when you're supposed to agree

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with what this person says is the majority.

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This to me is the face of what a lot of Americans think.

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They don't know what the policies they create do.

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They don't understand that people need a tourist visa

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to come to the country.

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Remember some folks asked a friend of mine from Egypt,

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why haven't you been to the US?

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These are people who voted to keep everyone

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from the S-hole countries out.

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That's what they supported.

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And then they're like,

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why doesn't a single woman from Egypt

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who's like statistically the biggest visa overstay risk,

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why wouldn't she be allowed to come to the country?

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People make these policies, they support these things.

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They don't even know what it's about.

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At least in some other countries,

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people have some idea what their politicians are doing.

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But what I also find interesting is,

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people say, oh, you abandoned the country.

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How many people move from Wisconsin to Florida

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to save a few points on taxes or for better weather?

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They abandoned their people,

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but it's okay because they just went to Florida

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and not Uruguay.

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So bottom line is there's just not enough in the US

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for me to want to go back.

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And that's not me saying I hate the country.

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It's not me saying I wish anyone ill.

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It's me saying and answering the question,

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why don't you go back?

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People ask me all the time,

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how often did you go back?

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I don't.

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What?

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Because they have great beaches.

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We have the Nomad Beach Index.

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Lots of great beaches all around the world.

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People on Instagram post about,

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oh, thank goodness I'm back from Europe.

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We have air conditioning again.

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Yeah, I've got air conditioning.

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I'm good in Malaysia, it's cold.

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It's cold air conditioning.

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And I have all the things that I want somewhere else.

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And I think that it's hard for me to make a choice.

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I live in places all around the world.

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I have never found the one place

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that I want to stay and live the rest of my life.

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Not because I'm running away,

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yes strategically having levers is a good thing.

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But I find too many places interesting

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and yet the US is not one of them.

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Having acceptance to me is important.

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And I think just saying, you know what?

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At some point it's good just to close something off.

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Don't stay in touch with the X

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and the relationship,

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enter the best time as possible.

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If they want to think you're a bad person,

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let them go off and do what they're gonna do,

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what you do, what you're gonna do.

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I don't regret.

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And I think sometimes moving forward's the best thing.

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Cutting off an option as much as I like collecting options.

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If you have the chance to cut one off,

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I think it's a good thing.

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And it is for that reason that I don't go back

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and don't expect to go back.

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Could I always change my mind?

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Of course I could, that's the benefit of.

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Being human and adapting and evolving.

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But there's your answer.

